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Why cant people be
upfront with what they have in their heart? Fine, don’t speak about it. Atleast
don’t go about speaking the exact opposite of what you feel!!
You hate a person or think she’s worth nothing. Dont go and tell her, she’s the most valuable person. You laugh at someone or think something is really pathetic. Don’t go explaining how much you loved it again and again……and again.
You hate a person or think she’s worth nothing. Dont go and tell her, she’s the most valuable person. You laugh at someone or think something is really pathetic. Don’t go explaining how much you loved it again and again……and again.
I don’t know why
people just “Love” giving false impressions to people. It’s all a game, isn’t
it? Emotions don’t matter to anyone, now, do they?? And trust? Why that’s another
outdated term, now, isn’t it?
I feel we have no
right to give anyone a belief that forms a false perception of the person of
the world. I have seen people give compliments of the highest level you could
imagine and when the person goes away, talk things like “He really believed
it?” I tell them, it’s not a joke! He never asked you anything. You go from
your side, say you are great(read ‘the most horrible person’). No one is really
in love with critics. But critics are way better than this species. Atleast
they are honest about what they feel!!
But people like this
can kill you. Or maybe they wont. Cuz it’s 21st century and everyone
knows we are NOT SUPPOSED to trust people.
And it’s not really
what people would do. It’s how they would let people know that they did it.
Some kind of charm or joy in it, is it? I am trying to get into the criminal
psyche. Alas! M too bad at many things. (Count this as one.:/)
Is it just a kind of
sadistic pleasure or is it a peer pressure? You cannot definitely be supporting
(really supporting) a weirdo who’s different from the crowd. If you are, you
got to mock about it in public, deliberately letting everyone know that you are
just ‘pretending at being the friend’ when you are not! Who wants to be an
outcast? (I remember my grad lines of cowards, “Humein hostel me rehna hai”. I
wonder how people sell their ‘opinions’, persona, outlooks, thoughts, for being
accepted no matter what the compulsion maybe. We are supposed to stand by what
we believe in, no matter what happens, right?(Ok, I heard ‘no’…shucks!! )
But it frustrates
us, doesn’t it? What would you do, if this ever happened to you.? Just imagine
how bad it would be if you were the victim of something like this? Would you
prefer being killed once or be fed like a bakra, treated like a king, had to
have a feast, worshipped, friends smiling and whispering , ‘You are the best
person (read bakra) I have ever seen.’ And then stab a knife at your back and
laugh as you manage your ‘Et tu Brute’.
If it was me, I
could burst out with frustration saying
“You don’t have to do this. Really. I don’t know if other people are really
very different. But seriously repeating the ‘Communication golden rule’ for
giving a bad news never works if you keep re-doing it, especially with someone
who knows the trick! Good news or a false pretense , or a buffer as you call it
and then the bad news. But you really don’t need to keep repeating over and
over again …..something ‘sugarcoated’(read ‘false’) again and again each time
you justify how you are right at
completely contradicting yourself on something you had assured a few hours ago.”
I can take it. It’s
not like I am supposed to be best at whatever I do. Not like everything I touch
turns gold. I can fail. Miserably. I know it. Guess everyone does. Everyone can
go wrong. Just say it. What’s the point in going in a GD way. “I really agree
with your point , ‘but’……..”
Why is everything so
superficial? Why does this world have no place for real bonds, real friendship,
real emotions, real well wishing(why even writing the word seemed so alien in
dictionary…:P)….real feelings (human to human) and real PEOPLE? Why do people
do it?
Do you know a better
reason? Is it sympathy at the poor, harmless dumb soul that s/he wont be able
to take it and probably have a nervous breakdown?
What I hate most
about such revelations is that people cant trust any single word the person
said earlier then! If this is what they do, then nobody means nothing to them.
If they ever call you ‘nicest buddy’, they mean ‘laughing object’.
There’s also a kind
who pretends to be your very good friend, denies their own statements, puts you
in problems and why yes, you should be there with them when they need you but
they are sorry as they couldn’t be with you when you needed them.
There’s the kind
that expects just everything from you, who would have their own rules, would
expect awe at moulding some of them for you as if they are so superior, they
could never do it and then you keep doing things, they keep reminding you of
the once they had helped and then your simplest of message can shake all so
called ‘deep friendship’.
I wonder how deep
the friendship would be when a person cant take a word you say, when you cant
have your abhiman, when you cant give your friend a piece of your mind, when
you are sad, when you need to think before you speak(Whoa!!….m definitely going
wrong somewhere…..Isnt that the going
contradictory to a friend’s definition?)
This fast,
superficial, materialistic world cares not for a caring soul. They don’t give a
damn for anyone with a heart. They think its foolish to even feel pain.
I know its a small
matter...m just making it big. We all know it, dont we? We still do it! Our
fault...We deserve the torture!! We know
we should never trust anyone. We know there's no one a friend in MBA. We know,
life's a dirty game of using each other....or being used!! I dont see many on
the latter, though....Nobody cares....What was the last century when people
used to care......(I mean, 'if'..........there was any time like that).
Wide awake happens
in real life.
Before this year(Ok,
not one but many….I wonder how many…..maybe 15……when we were just kids…)
Friends used to be
friends
Best buddies were
supposed to be best buddies
Life used to be a
lot easier than this.
People used to be a
lot simpler and understanding than this
It's like I was asleep before and finally woke up.
Know what? I'm wide-awake now.Oh, no, not
really………I am still in a trance and not really awake as yet. It’s still a dream (read ‘nightmare’)
I am trying feed burner alternatives. Get your own 👉
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