SHIV ANANDI all the way | Balika Vadhu




+Doveranalyst : Source India forums 

Like you all said, if she doesn't marry Shiv, it is just point less to show such an entry and also such a dramatic dream sequence.

Art mirrors the Indian Society

To give you a little backdrop to the story, I used to manage the facebook page for Balika Vadhu, a serial aired on COLORS for the longest period of time. It is a prime-time broadcast that aims to remove deeply rooted regressive practices like child marriage and the like from the grass root level.

Jagya was the child husband of Anandi, who is an epitome of adultery and left his wife for a city chick, Gauri. Now he's back to claim his old wife, just when she's about to fall in love with a truly deserving and charming guy, Shiv.

I seriously don't get it what's wrong with people, who can even think it is really not Jagya's fault. It is so simple to understand, isn't it? Just as in facebook Balika Vadhu page, people put it.Shiv is good and Jagya is bad.

Now let’s have logic for those who still think it’s not Jagya’s fault.

It’s Shivanandi. All the way !! Call it Shivanandi, AnadiShi , or whatever. I don't happen to like the Ansh (An from Anandi and SH from SHiv)a lot, personally....sounds so much like a common name....But the sparks all hit n love is in the air..........

Twist after twist, I guess my blog is gonna be a witness of how many latest twists posts I have made now.

Here you go with the translation of the amazing dialogue.

Contrast of Shiv n Jagya is evidently observed when Jagya says "Mujhe NAFRAT hai , Anandi ki achhai se, uske pyar se, uski seva se..."


(I hate Anandi’s goodness, righteousness, her love, her umm………. ‘seva’ means service as in taking care of someone , more as a servant would do for master or a devotee for God…….(and wonder Jagya even hates her for that………..! Actually, it is just a matter of psychology. He’s being defensive. Somewhere even Jagya knows what all he’s done and how he’s lost everything. He is angry with himself but cant really express that cuz of his over self obsessed nature. Reason why easily puts the blame for everything on Anandi, for losing his parents, etc….)

Paradoxically Shiv says "Mujhe PYAR hai , Anandi ki achhai se, uske pyar se, uski seva se...BOHT BOHT PYAAR"


Meaning that he loves Anandi for the very reasons that Jagya hates her for, her being so good, her taking care of people, her concern etc…n then he adds, ‘a lot of love’.


Shiv has absolutely FALLEN for her. And that sweet moment of Shiv telling himself.......that don't act like a teenage kid.....thinking of Anandi as he had taken that glitter paper from her hair.
Had loved his look as he had watched Anandi dance, still unaware of his emotions and how Dadisa had to propose their marriage.


Now have a look at this picture.It was when he was praising Anandi for haveing so much courage and even saluted her. That was exactly what she ahd been remembering again n again while she compared Jagya's n Shiv's behavior towards her, after that night, seeing her prince charming's face in her dream as that of Shiv.

He is the man for Anandi

and NOOOOOOOOOOOOO, there is hell n heaven difference between Jagya marrying Gauri and Anandi marrying Shiv!

For god's sake she is doing it after she's LEGALLY SEPARATED.

  • 1. Jagya accepted Anandi after he was 18. According to Indian law, he didn’t express his objection at child marriage till 2 years or report in any police station for rejecting his marriage.
This makes his wedding with Anandi legal.
I don’t feel BV wants to show it was fault of child marriage and not Jagya’s. That’s what Jagya said. He also says Anandi is bad. Do you believe that? NO. Anandi says the same. But, let’s not forget she’s so much in love with that jerk, she better put the blame on everything else just to lessen her torment, n as such she’s that nicey thing , isn’t it? Supposedly supposed to make everyone feel better.

  • Men cannot and should not escape the guilt of adultery on the pretext of child marriage, especially when they completely accept their wife to be their legally wedded wife. REASON WHY, our govt has protection for this misuse by men, by making the wedding legal after 18. This is what BV awares us of.
Jagya clearly used Anandi n threw her out of his life, a clear case of “love, sex aur dhoka”, the most disgusting form of betrayal to the most innocent n true form of love.And love I mean here, nothing else.

Minority of even 1, if they say, it wasn’t love…or a romantic relationship n just “some” relationship……….then was it that of brother n sister?? Grow up guys. People with just some relationship don’t go for honeymoons…!
  • 2. Jagya owes every second of his life to Anandi. Those who don’t remember, she’d taken the bullet shot on her head to save Jagya in tender childhood. Every bit that he lived and breathed, he owed her. Every second that he romanced with Gauri was because of Anandi’s sacrifice, that he was even alive to cheat Anandi.
  • 3. He lived lavishly of Anandi’s money and even let Gauri enjoy on that money which he never deserved.

1. I mean anyone with brains, who has followed this serial even SLIGHTLY , KNOWWSSSSS for sure, that after being 18, i.e: LEGALLY OLD ENOUGH to accept, he did accept her, had a PROPER marital relationship with Anandi, with love, n suddenly started cheating her, just like any other MARRIED man who does adultery. Its got ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with the child marriage, I feel. That had other problems, like Anandi not being able to go to school, childhood lost, bla bla..............we all know...............But Jagya cant escape his devilish n uneducated act of utmost lack of any values, by cheating her.


  • Let's NOT forget I repeat, he owed Anandi more than everything. She'd taken a bullet shot to save him at such a tender age.Every breath he takes is just cuz of her. n THIS is what he chose to do with his breaths, right?? Its not just any rishta............u love someone, have sex, n then say.....it was not luv, not friends....just some rishta....what the heck!!!
Had Jagya not accepted Anandi as his wife after 18, I would have had this arguement,But men cant escape on the pretext of childmarriage...on crimes they commit. I wud say chiildmarriage is just 5% responsible, if at all. He was educated, had so much exposure about life, from net, from all facilities provided by his family. He had good sanskar. Why did he betray then?

I was writing this blog, but something's gone wrong somewhere, n parts of it have gone, I'll need to rewrite it.I had 6 big reasons why jagya is wrong, lol..
So do visit again for the edits n changes…:P

Ok, you can thank me for all the deep research and all these pics, awesome SHIVANANDI moments, Though, for these, you guys need to help me. I have missed these portions and dont know the story behind these pics.

(Go click the Diaries and Fictionsection in top tabs that has excerpts from the novel that I'm currently writing.)


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