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Like I was saying…in my earlier post, Relationships n the distance within...people have changed…people have changed…..we
have no idea how.
People we knew so well once, we know nothing about them now.
(Ok, for all of you, who are wondering if it’s my another attempt
at pathetic poetry……..no, it’s not!)
And people who are right next to us, we know nothing either…….We
are least aware of the suffering that a person breathing amongst us might be
going through and so are people absolutely ignorant of the deep torments that
we go through……….times when we are tearing from within……….times when we have
cried our eyes out……times when we don’t remember when was the last time, we had
felt we had suffered like this.
We see people, around us, wishing not to make a scene.We see
people asking us, ‘Is everything fine?’
Time n again I have witnessed a lot of such instances. We laugh,
enjoy and share the same spaces in classrooms. I had no idea why a person kept
cutting herself.
But then I can’t blame people having suicidal tendencies……..we
all have our low times( anyone who said , ‘Not me!’, is the biggest liar we
have here).
Well, atleast I don’t………I said startling cuz I guess even the qsn
is too startling, isn’t it?
The professor of Psychology from US who had visited us lately had
told us we must share our feelings and emotions. We must never ever text a
person five feet away……….(even if we have free sms!) that doesn’t make us great
in people skills but in texting skills.
In any case we are somehow being drawn away from the human
presence next to us……..talking with a number of people is important for
psychological wellbeing.
At another extreme, we are wondering whether or not we should
ping our long lost childhood friend who’s online, cuz we know nothing about
what to talk……
Is it a time to start knowing them afresh as a new person? Should
we not really drag our lazy feet and make some effort to know the new people,
we think are cool enough and alike………..n who can be great friends………But what if
they think we are being intrusive (read chipku….nosy parker)
Well, indeed it is not easy to be in everyone’s ‘close’
zone……….being close to everyone and knowing their heart out.
I am trying feed burner alternatives. Get your own 👉
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