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Relationships
and the distance within….
We don’t live
alone..everyone has shared their lives with someone! We get close, we share, we
care, we fight….we wonder why things changed…….
The CLOSER we are, the
FARTHER we get…do we really KNOW people with whom we spend our typical
EVERYDAY?
I used to wonder how people
who see each other everyday in school haven’t ever talked to each other n the
first time, they ever talked was on Fb, or myspace, or other social networking
websites….
But true, that is life….the
bigger classes you go into…(Count 150 classmates….n you would hardly know
30-40)
Forget those we don’t even
talk to…..what about those that we hang around with,….every break, we go n
smile, talk a bit about our professors, classes, etc….but do we REALLY know
them? Do we know what they like, what they dislike….?
People tend to know more
about likes, dislikes, good moments, and bad and to a great depth about the
life of their net friends, probably because it’s easier to share things to
someone you don’t even know…
Not many people would prefer
talking face-to-face…People texting eachother when they are just 5 feet away is
not uncommon….I mean its fun sometimes, but there’s an awkwardness that makes
us do this, isn’t it? So, where are we heading at? This is the biggest irony of
today..we know more about the far, n sometimes know just nothing about people
so close to you…..There’s an inherent distance within relationships between
people.
“When someone sees the same
people every day, they become a part of that person's life. And then they want
the person to change. If someone isn't what others want them to be, the others
become angry. Everyone seems to have a clear idea of how other people should
lead their lives, but none about his or her own.”
― Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist
― Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist
It is so so difficult to
maintain a relationship with just anyone.More often than not we do not
communicate….whatever hurts us is seldom said, which keeps on building a bridge
that keeps on separating us from the other person.
In most close
relationships, we feel this is gonna last forever, the best of friends, couples
etc, but everything changes….circumstances change…the way people think changes….priorities
change….and it becomes difficult to accept…and at one point you realise, that
the reasons for which you had ever admired or respected the other, to be a
friend have all changed to the contrary….that is when you prefer giving up as
it gives you more torment to be with the absolute opposite person than not.
I am trying feed burner alternatives. Get your own 👉
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